Founding Member Offer & Terms

The full offer, in plain English.

Here's exactly what founding membership includes, who qualifies, and what you'll pay — now and for life.

Locked-in founder rates (for life)

Founding members pay $30 upfront at signup, which covers a full 3 months of access (one paid month plus two bonus months). After that, membership renews at your locked founder rate below — for life, tied to your profile rather than to staying subscribed. Founders can switch between monthly and annual founder rates at any time. If your membership lapses or expires, your founder rate is waiting for you whenever you come back. It's only lost if your profile is deleted.

Founder annual
$324 / year
Paid once a year. Equivalent to ~$27/mo, locked in for life and tied to your profile.
Founder monthly
$30 / month
Locked-in founder rate for life, tied to your profile. If your membership lapses, the same rate is waiting when you return.

Standard pricing (new members)

Anyone who joins after founding-member seats are gone pays the standard rates below. All plans include full access to Discover, matches, and family features.

PlanPriceEffective / mo
Weekly$15 / week~$65
Monthly$49 / month$49
3 months (upfront)$120 every 3 months$40
3 months (monthly, committed)$45/mo × 3$45
6 months (upfront)$210 every 6 months$35
6 months (monthly, committed)$40/mo × 6$40
Annual$400 / year~$33

First launch city — first 100 seats at $30 for 3 months

Indianapolis, IN will be our first launch city. The first 100 founding members near each launch city pay $30 upfront for a full 3 months of access (one paid month plus two bonus months), then continue at the locked-in founder rate. People closest to the city get first priority; people up to 100 miles away may get a spot if any remain at launch. Outside 100 miles, we'll email you when your area launches.

Launch date TBD — no founding seats are open yet.

Next wave — cities under consideration

After Indianapolis, we'll roll out to additional cities in waves. Launch dates are still being determined. If you're near one of the cities below, you can pre-register your interest — we'll email you when your city goes live.

  • Atlanta, GADate TBD
  • Boston, MADate TBD
  • Charlotte, NCDate TBD
  • Chicago, ILDate TBD
  • Columbus, OHDate TBD
  • Dallas-Fort Worth, TXDate TBD
  • Denver, CODate TBD
  • Jacksonville, FLDate TBD
  • Las Vegas, NVDate TBD
  • Los Angeles, CADate TBD
  • Miami, FLDate TBD
  • Nashville, TNDate TBD
  • New York, NYDate TBD
  • Phoenix, AZDate TBD
  • Portland, ORDate TBD
  • San Diego, CADate TBD
  • San Francisco, CADate TBD
  • Seattle, WADate TBD
  • Tampa, FLDate TBD
International — launching later

Outside the United States? Join the waitlist.

datemymom.com is launching in U.S. cities first. There's no launch date outside the U.S. yet. Join the waitlist and we'll email you when your area launches.

Rules & fine print

  • Founding membership is limited to parent-role accounts age 55+ who complete ID verification. Every member, dater or helper, must verify their ID; profiles aren't shown and interest and chat stay locked until then.
  • One founding seat per person and per household. Duplicate or fraudulent accounts are removed and the seat is returned to the pool.
  • The $30 upfront charge covers 3 months of access from account creation. After that, membership renews automatically at the locked-in founder rate ($30/month, or $324/year if you switch). You can cancel any time before renewal and keep access through the end of the paid period.
  • Your locked-in founder rate is yours for life, tied to your profile. Pausing, canceling, or letting membership lapse does not take it away — come back any time and the founder rate still applies. It ends only if your profile is deleted.
  • You can cancel any time and keep full access until the end of your paid period. You can also pause 1, 2, or 3 months — your profile and matches are preserved and access resumes automatically.
  • Founding pricing applies to the parent's own membership. Gifted subscriptions, family-paid access, and boost packs are separate purchases and are not covered by the founder lock-in.
  • We may adjust standard pricing at any time. Locked-in founder rates are not affected.

Founding spots open when your city launches.

Questions? Contact us.